“[marriage is] the deepest means for the liberation of homosexuals, providing them with the only avenue for sexual and emotional development that can integrate them as equal human beings and remove from them the hideous historic option of choosing between their joy and their dignity." - Andy Sullivan, Love Undetectable . [emphasis mine]
I guess Andy is admitting that he is not fully integrated as a human being.
Which has he chosen - joy or dignity?
Enquiring minds want to know..
