I don't know how many times stoopid bloggers like me have to point out that the anti-choice movement - again, not all anti-choice people, but the organized movement - aren't just against abortion, they're against contraception and any sex without a good chance of "consequences" for the woman taking part.
I've met Ryan and he seems like a pretty good guy. I think he was genuine, unlike some, in his attempt to find some common ground. But it just isn't there.